:: In Pursuit of Happiness ::
Someone asked me yesterday, what do I need to make me happy? To keep happy on a daily basis. No one has ever really asked me that question before.. I just assume people would know that it doesn’t take a lot to make me happy.
I’m an Aquarian.. and if you’re into horoscopes, astrology and signs, you would know that Aquarians are ultra-sensitive people. For me, kalau jaga hati i pun dah cukup. I don’t need people to shower me with gifts or surprises.. I’m the type of person who lives for the little things in "love life".. like endearments, cards, jiwang text messages, lovey-dovey emails / notes.. or just spending time making out and/or doing nothing together.. err yeah, i do. I love hearing the voice of the person I love, first thing I open my eyes in the morning and the last thing at night before I fall asleep. I’m a sucker for love songs and romance. I’m a true hopeless romantic at heart. I’m crazee cos I like to go the distance for someone I love. Sometimes, i think it would be nice if i had someone who would go the distance for me.. you know, to feel wanted and needed.. and well, since I don’t have such a person in my life, I make it a point to be that person.
What if that person dah rasa dia dah cukup jaga hati i? or they have already compromised more than they think they should for me? Well, we have different levels of satisfaction.. and satisfaction is an individual opinion. What works for you, may not work for me. That’s why compromising is vital in a relationship (or not-in-an-R).. again, communication is the only way to go. If you don’t talk about it, then you’ll just not know.. you can’t expect the person to have ESP (extrasensory perception / sixth sense), right? I love communicating cos i’m a very optimistic person. I believe that just about everything can be worked out if two people are willing to talk, listen to each other and compromise. I’m a lovesick puppy.. what I wouldn’t do for the person I love.
What makes me happy? Just like every other person, I want to feel appreciated and loved unconditionally. Sadly, i’m a little insecure when it comes to love, so sometimes, I need reassurance and reminders. When the person is really in love with me, they will know what to do. Like I said, it doesn’t take much to make me happy.. but the effort definitely earns you points. 
Momentarily or for all eternity, I feel lucky to have fallen for you.
